The Ethics of Love Spells: Why Energy Protection is Key
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Sometimes, you’re going through something difficult, and you come across someone else’s story—whether it’s through social media, YouTube, a blog, or even in person. Just hearing someone share a similar experience can offer a sense of relief. You feel validated, like someone else out there understands your situation. It can even take the edge off those unpleasant feelings you were holding onto.
But here's the truth: unless you have actual tools and use them regularly, that relief will only be temporary. Those same feelings will creep back in, especially if you’re dealing with something more intense—like someone possibly doing energy work on you. And let me be clear: it’s totally natural to feel triggered by the idea that someone could be manipulating your energy. I’ve been there. I’ve had it done to me more than once, and that’s why I’m sharing this today.
Before I get too deep into this, I also want to admit something—I’ve been on the other side of this. I’ve done a love spell on someone. And while they actually thanked me for it, I now recognize that if you have to use love magic to get someone to fall for you, it’s probably because there’s an underlying incompatibility.
The Hidden Costs of Love Magic
Let’s break it down. If you find yourself needing to do a love spell to attract someone, that’s a red flag. Why? Because it probably means there’s a fundamental mismatch. This person may be on a different path, and trying to force them into your life can lead to all kinds of complications. You might think, "This person is out of my league. If I use magic, maybe I’ll ride their coattails and we’ll soar together." But here’s the harsh truth: that’s not always how it plays out. More often than not, you end up elevating them while you remain where you are because your path isn’t aligned with theirs.
This is why I can speak about love magic from experience. While I did get the outcome I wanted, I now understand how it can backfire. The way I did it wasn’t about manipulating the other person’s thoughts or feelings. Instead, I focused on intensifying my own feelings, so they resonated strongly enough in the universe to attract the result. But there’s a line I would never cross—and this is key.
The Boundary You Should Never Cross: Thought Implantation
Where things get really dangerous is when people use magic to implant feelings or thoughts into someone else’s mind to manipulate them. Whether it’s love magic, sex magic, or anything else—when you try to force someone to love you by manipulating their mind, that’s a violation of their psychic space. I won’t use the R-word here, but let’s be honest, it’s a serious boundary to cross.
I’ve never done that, and I would never condone it. There’s a massive difference between sending out your own intentions into the universe and actively trying to bend someone’s will to match yours. If you’ve felt like this kind of energy is being used on you, it’s understandable to feel unsettled—but there are ways to protect yourself.
How to Protect Yourself from Energy Manipulation
If you’re feeling like someone might be manipulating your energy, first off—congratulate yourself. Seriously. If someone is trying that hard to attach themselves to you, it’s because you’ve got something going for you. People don’t just try to manipulate those who have nothing to offer. Once you’re done congratulating yourself and taking inventory of all of the amazing traits you possess, you’ll need to move on to protecting yourself.
The key to energetic protection is to use your words and visuals to create a shield around yourself. Whether it’s through prayer, incantations, or visualizations, you can take back control of your energy. The power of words cannot be overstated—they help you set clear boundaries and reaffirm your control over your own mind and space.
“Ever wonder why it’s called a ‘spell’? Because words have always had the power to cast magic—whether you’re enchanting hearts or protecting your energy, the right words are your strongest tool.”
But here’s the thing: this isn’t a one-time fix. Think of it like taking a shower. You wouldn’t expect to stay clean for the rest of your life after one wash, right? The same goes for protecting your energy. Even if it’s not black magic, we’re all constantly surrounded by different forces trying to influence us—from ads trying to get you to buy things to people trying to push their own agendas.
Get Your Energy Protection Cheat Sheet
I’ve put together a simple, spiritual protection cheat sheet with prayers and visualizations you can use to protect your energy. It’s something you can keep on your phone, maybe even set as your background, so you can return to it whenever you feel the need to reset your boundaries and strengthen your protection.
This little Protection Prayer & Visualization Cheat Sheet is just to hold you over while you do your own research and start creating your own personalized prayers and visualizations. It's not an exhaustive list by any means, but it's a great starting point to help protect your energy. If you’re interested in diving deeper, I’m currently working on a book that will go much further into these topics, so stick around! Sign up for the newsletter, and you’ll be the first to know when it’s available. ↓↓
Your Energy, Your Power
Remember, your energy is precious. It’s what makes you unique and powerful, and that’s exactly why others may try to manipulate it. But you have the power to protect yourself. The key is consistency—using the right tools regularly to maintain your energy and stay in control.
If you’re ready to take action and shield your energy from outside influences, download the cheat sheet and start doing those prayers and visualizations today. Your energy deserves protection, and you’re worth it.
